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88 Days Campaign: Secure Women's Livelihood Take action to acknowledge their contributions |
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The 88
Days Campaign was officially started on December 10. This
year, we are making a new move - from the outdoors to the internet. We would
like to invite you to join in and take real action to recognize the
contributions of women during the 88 days from December 10 (International Human
Rights Day) to March 8 (International Women’s Day). |
The theme for this
year 88 Days Campaign is on “Secure Women’s Livelihood”. Increasing numbers of
women are entering the workforce, but the majority of women workers, especially
those at the grass-roots level, do not receive the basic protection they
deserve. The contributions of the 700,000 women who are homemakers caring their
families, are also not being recognized. Through the stories of three women from
different backgrounds, we wish to share with you the struggles of women in
securing their livelihood and how these stories can be changed . Click here to
view
"HER Stories". Let’s take action in these 88 days! Join us to change the plight of women
together. On our
"88
Days Campaign" website, we have listed
different ways to take action: |
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You can access our
Yahoo! Auction site to participate in our charity
auction. At the moment, items available for auction include shell necklaces from
Easter Island donated by Chilean Women’s Fund, Fondo Alquimia; ethnic shawls
donated by Nepali Women’s Fund, Tewa ; 100% cashmere scarves donated by
Mongolian Women’s Fund, Mones; jersery signed by
Cristiano Cordeiro,
captain of the Hong Kong
Convoy Sun Hei
Sports Club; volleyballs signed by the Chinese
Olympic Women’s
Volleyball Team and a Hermes handbag.
All
proceeds will go to our grant-making work in 2009/2010. Alternatively, you can
also donate goods for our auction.
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"Fundraise
for HER" Tool Kit:Has
it ever occurred to you
that your Christmas
party or birthday party can also raise funds for HER Fund? Download
"Fundraise for HER"
Tool Kit to learn more.
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Online Donation:Donating
online is a quick, easy process; it only requires several steps to make a
donation in order to support our fund allocation work and to express your
support and care for local women.
Donate now!
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We have 88 ways to let you do one good deed a day for 88 days. Every day will be a day to care about women! |
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There are even more
methods listed on our “88 Days Campaign” website. Go to
www.herfund.org.hk/8838 to join in this Campaign now! |
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THE STORY OF MAY - a low income single mother | |
One way or another,
trying to making ends meet brings with it constant worry and anxiety. May, a
single mum, dreads the computer breaking down most - any repair would cost
several hundred dollars. Where on earth would she find this extra money?
May and her daughter survive on a measly five to six thousand dollars a month
from her low pay job topped up with welfare payment,. They barely scrape by even
when everything goes well. If they were unlucky and something,
such as the rice cooker goes wrong, it would empty the little hoard of ten to
eight dollars that she stashed away the previous month, leaving her with zilch.
Cash never stays overnight in a poor woman’s pocket.
She can cope with a most meager lifestyle if she were on her own. But with her
daughter just reaching puberty, there are some essential expenses. She cannot,
in all conscience, let her daughter do without some of the things that all her
classmates can afford. She gives her daughter an allowance of a hundred dollars
a week. Her daughter says that all her classmates get more. May acknowledges
this but is helpless because there is no more money in the kitty.
It is just as well that her daughter fairly understands. She complains but does
not make too much fuss. Nonetheless, May feels that she owes her daughter. All
she could do is to continue to scrimp and save. Now and then her daughter spends
some of her allowance on a movie but May herself had not set
foot in a cinema since her divorce 9 years ago. She can do with a new
pair of spectacles too but cannot spare the cash, her current pair is over ten
years’ old. The same goes for her clothes,
and she makes do with her daughter’s castoff sneakers.
May hates being poor, not because of the privations, but because it blights her
relationship with her daughter. Their occasional conflicts always revolve around
money. May fully understands her daughter’s resentment. Home is a hundred square
feet apartment in the Butterfly Estate in Tuen Mun, barely big enough for a bed,
a table and two chairs. The fridge came from the Salvation Army and the wardrobe
is second hand. A sofa? There isn’t one. The television opposite the table is
one of those heavy clunky ones. It occurs to May that high definition TV and set
top boxes for this era will be on the market soon. What is she to do?
Living in Tuen Mun, May rarely has any opportunity to visit the city centre. Her
last visit was to attend a city discussion forum as a representative of the
Concerning Group for Poverty Women. She had
hoped to walk around Causeway Bay, but had to hurry back to Tuen Mun for work.
May works from 4 till 9 as a sales assistant
in a supermarket for HK$22 an hour. Not only does this mean that she cannot have
supper with her daughter, but she has to work even during the holidays and feast
days. Working conditions are pretty tough too. May has no other options. She
cannot rely on welfare completely, and working gives her the extra thousand
dollars or so that make life more bearable.
Their biggest expenditure is on food. To save money, they have all their meals
at home. A simple meal costs at least sixty or seventy dollars a day on simple
meals, such as beef with broccoli, steam fish with tofu, or whatever is the
cheapest food available. Now and then, her daughter complains that there are
never any snacks in the house. May can stretch to buy some biscuits
occasionally, but fancy snacks are beyond her means. With Christmas approaching,
all May can do is to apologize to her daughter for the absence of presents.
There is a big gulf between poverty and her aspiration, May has never really
planned for the future. She takes each day as it comes and feels gratified if
there is no mishap. The one blessing that she can count on is their robust
health, a consequence, probably, of their very basic diet. |
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The story of May
is also the typical stories of many low-income women in Hong Kong. According
to “Women and Men in Hong Kong Key Statistics 2008 Edition”:
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Due to globalization and structural changes of the Hong Kong economy, women workers who are not well educated or well trained could only work in outsourced or part-time or low-paid jobs, which create a group of marginalized workers and poor women in society. Even though life is bitter and harsh, May is not demoralized, she is still actively involved in the activities of Concerning Group for Poverty Women to fight for an opportunity for herself and other women. May is one of the members of Concerning Group for Poverty Women. HER Fund made grants to the group in: 2005/06, 2007/08, and 2008/09 to carry out various projects to promote women's rights and social justice in Hong Kong, especially in Tuen Mun.
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Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus?! | |
In our daily lives, we tend to mix up the Chinese terms “sex” and
“gender” and stick to traditional views on different genders. We will do a
mini-exposé on ten common misunderstandings in e-newsletter.
A typical day in my life: wake up…Mom makes my bed; eat
breakfast…Mom buys it or cooks it; get dressed…Mom does the laundry; eat my home
lunch…Mom cooks it; while I’m at work …Mom is doing household chores; at dinner
… Mom buys the groceries, cooks the meal and washes the dishes; go on the
internet…Mom cleans the study room; take a shower…Mom is the one who cleans the
bathroom.
Every month, I get paid with a salary, but
what about Mom. Up
till now, the job of Mom has always been as a homemaker while Dad has always
been the breadwinner of the family. This is why Dad has never actively done any
household chores -- it has always been the responsibility of Mom. |
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The concept
that "men as the breadwinners and women as the housekeeper" is not unique to my
family. Whether one is talking about the more open Western society or the more
traditional Eastern society, this thinking has been existed for a long time and
is a deeply-rooted concept. Not only are women expected to take care of
household chores, but their contributions do not have any monetary value or
return; they have no salary, and no MPF to support themselves when they grow
old. If their husbands or children are not dependable, they will have nobody to
depend on or support them.Don’t assume that women with education and financial ability can simply hire a domestic helper to do the
household chores. When their children have any illnesses or problems at school,
it’s always the woman who gives up her job to take care of the children and the
family. |
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As men are regarded as the breadwinners of the family, even if women have jobs, taking good care of the family is still regarded as their highest priority. Even though they have to juggle two jobs, there is no recognition and appreciation at the end of the day and after all the hard work. On the other hand, men who enjoy doing chores at home are being laughed at and labeled as “dependent on woman”. As a result, they are forced to continue to go to work. Besides taking a new position that “women as the breadwinners and men as the housekeeper” is as good as vice versa, there should be recognition and support for the homemakers to secure their livelihood. |
Accepting Applications for 2009/2010 Grant-making | |
The 2009/2010 grant-making briefing session was successfully held on Friday, November 28. More than twenty organizations participated that day. As a result, we were able to meet a considerable number of new organizations. The end of the briefing session also marked the start of the grant-making application process. Here, we would like to remind you that the deadline for receiving applications for 2009/2010 grant- making is January 22, 2009. Please click here to see the contents of the briefing session and download an application form. |
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The 5th Annual General Meeting and a New Executive Committee | |
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On October 16, 2008, the 5th Annual General Meeting of HER Fund was successfully held. In the absence of the chairperson, Ms. Agnes Chan, our vice chairperson, Ms. Lin Chew, chaired the meeting. Lin Chew thanked all members of HER Fund for their hard work and contributions! With the support of all members and staff, she wished HER Fund a very successful year to come.! Ms. Chung Yuen Yi, HER Fund Treasurer, also shared good news about our last year’s performance. She reported that local donations from 2007/2008 were double those of 2006/2007, which was an encouraging news! On the other hand, as HER Fund |
continued to grow, she encouraged us to keep up with the god work and to raise more funds for both the operating expenses for HER Fund as well as for grant-making. Executive Committee members also decided to invite Ms. Lam Tze Yan to continue to be our legal consultant for HER Fund in the following year, and was delighted that Ms. Lam continued to support us. At the same time, Ms. Cyd Ho, Ms. Anna Wu and Ms. Christine Fang kindly accepted to continue to be our Distinguished Friends in the coming fiscal year. With so much support from our friends and supporters, HER Fund will definitely continue to strive our best in mobilizing resources for women’s rights work. The 2008/09 New Officers are as follows: Chairperson : Ms. Hazel Wong In the coming year, with the leadership of our experienced and committed Executive Committee members, HER Fund will continue to do her best in striving to build resources for the advancement of women's rights and empowerment. |
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